Tim Burton's Lifestyle

If Tim Burton wanted to live life in private with his girlfriend, why bargain people out of others's?  It seems like he uses his family as a tool.  It seems like his girlfriend enjoys other people having a good time with him, though.  I enjoy that a lot, as well.  He seems to be pretty strict.  I'm a pretty moral person, so I found it pretty easy to feel like I would be on his good side.